A lot of men have told me that one of the pieces of advice they’ve gotten in the past is some version of “You just have to be more confident, man. Women like confidence.” Sound familiar? While it is true that “confidence” is effective in regard to being attractive to more women, telling someone to…
So you want to have a 3some: After a good friend of mine was invited, rather awkwardly and humorously, into a threesome, I thought it might be helpful to touch on the subject. There are many spots along the way to a threesome where it can get shut down, but if you have the right…
Whether it’s a few days away at the beach over the summer, skiing in the winter, or anything in between, whatever vacation destination you enjoy will also have single ladies heading there to get away, relax, let loose, forget about work, and generally have a good time… you can help her with that if you…
Non-monogamy Fundamentals: I’m sure everyone reading this has at some point in their life found themselves in a “friends with benefits” situation, or has wanted to find themselves in one. There are a few different ways to say it: non-monogamous, friends with benefits, fuck buddies, hook ups. But they all mean essentially the same thing:…
Learning social skills is more about un-learning than it is about learning: When you learn math or language at a young age you’re taught the proper way to do things from day one. Imagine trying to learn math without anyone teaching you, and the only real advice you get is “just be yourself.” Imagine seeing…
5 ideas you must un-learn if you want your social skills to progress Developing your social skills are as much about letting go of old ideas as it is about forming new ones. The following are 5 commonly held misconceptions about women and dating that you’ll need to let go of, because if you continue…
Make sure your place helps the night be fun, not be what destroys the mood — it really can make or break your night. Some of this should be common sense, but these simple steps will help make sure your place is ready to have a special guest over. None of these on their own…
5 common dating mistakes guys make Trying to build comfort before developing attraction: This is how you end up in the friend zone. There are plenty of ways to develop/create attraction, and that is a long discussion on its own, but if you try to build comfort/rapport before you have attraction, you will end up…